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Another misconception about the month of
Muharram is that it is an evil or unlucky month, for
Sayyidna Husain (RA) was killed in it. It is for this
misconception that people avoid holding marriage
ceremonies in the month of Muharram. This is again a
baseless concept which is contrary to the express
teachings of the Holy Qur'an and the Sunnah. Such
superstitions have been totally negated by the Holy
Prophet (SAW). If the death of an eminent person in a
particular day renders that day unlucky for all times to
come, one can hardly find a day, free from this bad luck,
out of 365 days of the whole year, because each and every
day has a history of the demise of some eminent person.
The Holy Qur'an and the Sunnah of the Holy Prophet (SAW)
have us free from such superstitious beliefs, and they
deserve no attention.
Another wrong practice related to this
month is to hold the lamentation and mourning ceremonies
in the memory of Martyrdom of Sayyidna Husain (RA). As
mentioned earlier, the event of Karbala is one the most
tragic events of our history, but the Holy Prophet (SAW)
has forbidden us from holding the mourning ceremonies on
the death of any person. The people of Jahiliyyah
(ignorance) used to mourn over their deceased relatives
or friends through loud lamentations by tearing their
clothes and by beating their cheeks and chests. The Holy
Prophet (SAW) stopped the Muslims from doing all this and
directed them to observe patience by saying : "Inna
lillah hey wa inna alaihe rajeoon". A number of authentic
Hadith are available on the subject. To quote only one of
them: "He is not from our group who slaps his cheeks,
tears his clothes and cries in the manner of the people
of Jahiliyyah ."
All the authentic jurists are unanimous on
the point that the mourning of this type is absolutely
impermissible. Even Sayyidna Husain (RA) shortly before
his demise, had advised his beloved sister Sayyidah
Zainab (RA) not to mourn over his death in this manner.
He said: "My dear sister, I swear upon you that you, in
case I die, shall not tear your clothes, nor scratch your
face, nor curse anyone for me or pray for your death".It
is evident from this advice of Sayyidna Husain (RA) that
this type of mourning is condemned even by the blessed
person for the memory of whom these mourning ceremonies
are held. Every Muslim should avoid this practice and
abide by the teachings of the Holy Prophet (SAW) and his
beloved grand child Sayyidna Husain (RA).
The word "Muharram" means
"Forbidden."
Even before Islam, this month was always
known as a sacred month in which all unlawful acts were
forbidden, prominently the shedding of blood.
A Blessing of Muharram: - There are many
bounties of this month, especially the tenth of
Muharram.
Two of the many virtues of the 10th of
Muharram: On this day he who spends more lavishly for the
sake of his family members, Allah will bestow blessing
upon the sustenance of the following year.
Abu Qataada (R.A.) has related that the
Prophet (SAW) has reported to have said, It is my thought
that by fasting on the 10th of Muharram Allah will pardon
the sins of the past year. (Tirmizi)
Events in month of MUHARRAM...
Hadhrat Hussain (R.A.) was martyred in
this month.
Shaykhain Tirmizi & Haakim has narrated from Anas (R.A)
that the following verse: "Allah may forgive thee of thy sins
thai which is past and thai which is to come." (Al-Fath) was
revealed on ihe 10th of Muharram.
The Prophet Muhammed (SAW) went to defeat Bani Muhaarin and
Bani Tha'laba (Tribes of Bani Gatfan) in the year 4
A.H.(Asahhus-siyar)
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